While straight people reported having sex for the first time at 17.6 years old on average, gay people said they were closer to 18. In contrast to the wrong headed belief that all gay men are promiscuous, an online survey of 1000 gay people reported that gay people actually lost their virginity a little later than straight folks. This is based on the view that sex is a gift from God. The “traditional” view is that men and women should abstain from sex until they are married and then engage in heterosexual sex.
This includes kissing, fondling, masturbating and oral sex. While it is true that anal sex is the ultimate sexual activity between two men, we recognize that any same sex physical intimacy is important. Gay virginity generally refers to anal sex. They will ignore all the other characteristics that make you unique as a human being like your personality, attitude, experiences, job, or anything else that makes you the special person that you are. In other words, many of your friends and family will identify you based on your sexual preference. Whether your first time engaging in man-on-man sex was transitioning from heterosexual sex or exclusively homosexual, it marks the beginning of a new identity.
First time gay sex stories carry a special place in our hearts because it marks the true beginning of a life style that has physical and emotional consequences for gay men.